You know how I am with useless information, so here’s more: whether you have one haiku or seventy of them, the word does not have an S at the end. You don’t have haikus. You always have haiku. I’m not sure why the word can’t be pluralized, but there you have it. So, I offer several haiku.
So, did you notice?
All my flickr pics are gone
Except for the shoes
Resume building
Plus interview readiness
Could mean a new job
Important new job
Doesn’t jar with the blog life
What’s a gal to do?
Some heartfelt gestures
Have been taken the wrong way
To which I say crap
Some of it was on target
The rest of it? Ouch.
You’ve been watching me
Hey! All you district people
You and your big mouths
Difficult to say
This blog has come to an end
Difficult to say
March 5, 2007 @ 7:41 am | Filed under Lessons I'm Learning, Make An Inference! | Permalink |
Cynthia Samuels Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 8:06 am
Kelly - Thanks for the heads up. I will miss the blog desperately but am totally clear on why you are doing this. In my own blog I often “pull punches” that might hurt other people…or me. I’ve sent you the link in an email. I love you and hope you will be able to return but if getting this great job where you help even more children with all your gifts and knowledge then so be it. I more than many know what a good, committed educator means to a child with a disability. Don’t be a stranger.. you can at least come by and post on my blog… LOVE LOVE LOVE cindy
Busy Mom Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 8:09 am
Sandra W Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 8:12 am
I don’t feel very well, and my eyes are crossed, oh and my brain decided to stop functioning. So, when I ask you this question please don’t think that I am a idiot. Okay, are you ending your blog all together or just that particular entry. If you are ending this blog entirely then I should start crying now and expect a very long email. Should I?
Sandra W Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 8:13 am
typo…an idiot!!!!
Sarah, Goon Squad Sarah Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 8:19 am
Can’t you just keep going and… I don’t know… not curse?
It wouldn’t be the same, would it?
I will be very sad if you stop.
Trish Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 8:34 am
remember in Monster’s Inc when Sully passes out thinking Boo was squished in the compactor? That’s the look I had when I read the blog was ending. I hope you meant this particular post and not the whole she-bang cause I really dig it.
Chase Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 8:38 am
To exchange one haiku for another:
hot mocha momma
no more licking her online
this DOES effing suck
Kate Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 8:44 am
Sad to read that you won’t be posting anymore - I have enjoyed reading your blog. Good luck and take care. Kate.
Nora Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 8:45 am
Uhmm, I am glad for you, but sad for us readers, we love you. However I can completely understand, I have been trying to decide how to run my online life as well. We would all hate for you to get deuced.
margalit Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 9:01 am
I am very sad
Mocha Momma shuts down blog
who will make coffee?
I totally understand. May I recommend starting a new, password protected blog for the severely addicted? Puhleeze?
Mocha Momma Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 9:01 am
Just to be clear, I don’t try to pull punches, but instead try to be ‘real’ without naming names or pointing blame. Oddly enough, those who know I’m talking about them always seem to read me and somehow know and still get upset. Let’s be honest: there isn’t freedom of speech. There is always a cost.
It’s not that I could get “dooced” for my writing, but I certainly could be “mocha mommaed” by not being offered a position based on this blog. Not a risk I’m willing to take.
God, I hope “mocha mommaed” makes it to Wikipedia now.
Elizabeth Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 9:26 am
No more Miss Mocha?
My darling BlogMe Beauty
I will miss you so.
Private blog for friends?
Password oh so top secret?
If not, keep in touch!
You have been an inspiration to me, Kelly. Good luck with everything. I will really miss you! xoxoxoxo Elizabeth
G Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 9:26 am
Go to your real life, succeed, and be well! Unless this blog is a tool, a shortcut to keep in touch with people you actually know and love, then go my friend go and never look back! I think you’re funny, but I don’t LOVE you honey, because I don’t know you and you don’t know me. You in Chicago. Me in Raleigh. No real chance of meeting. You owe me nothing. I’ll keep up your link on my space, and think of you and your online antics fondly. Maybe we’ll see you once in a while. Best best best of luck - G
Shigeta Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 9:30 am
Unbelievable! I.Love.Your.Blog. Funny thing is though, in the last several weeks, I’ve seen several people post that they are done blogging…some because of the time involved, others because of people reading entries and freaking out. This sucks. I hope things work out for you!!! I was so looking forward to all of your commentary about Barack’s campaign.
Jenn Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 9:33 am
I am very sorry to see you go, but I completely understand the whys behind it. Best of luck and I do hope you get the job you are working towards!
Jenn
Heather B. Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 9:42 am
Well this little zygote is a bit bummed…:(
Susan Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 10:14 am
I’ll miss you Kelly. Anything other than your usual fully-caffeinated blog just won’t be the same. But I understand why you’re doing it. Your voice is strong and your internet presence was so visible that it was inevitable (I think) that your ability to make honest, candid observations would someday be compromised. I do think that there was much wisdom in what “Real Life” wrote. If you must choose between a cyber-life and a flesh & blood one, then go with the latter. Rest assured that you touched so many readers and that the connections you made with us were meaningful. Best of luck to you!
tedfoo Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 11:01 am
So you’re saying I should just kill myself now?
Lisa Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 11:01 am
You’re an excellant writer. I hope you find a new, less complicated outlet for your writing.You’ll be missed.
Best! Lisa
RW Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 11:06 am
You can’t.
That’s all I got.
Yvonne Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 11:18 am
There’s a heap of stuff I want to say but I do not want to make you feel bad about this decision. So this is me trying very hard to be a grown up for once in my life
Although I may not be a “real” friend or a “reality” in any way, YOU have made a huge difference in my life. And I will never be able to thank you enough for all you did for me.
I will pray with all my heart for the new job, for the family and friends to give you some time and forgive you (if that’s the right way to phrase it), and for the continued health, happiness and love of the Mocha Clan.
I will try my very best to respect your decision. I will try not to innundate you with stupid emails. I will miss you very much. Take care my wonderful friend. Be well, safe, happy and at peace in yourself.
My angel watches over you for me
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
Mommela Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 11:28 am
Sigh. It’s all for the right reasons, I know, and I support you, of course, I’m just not happy about it. If you consider the passworded blog, count me in, please! May all your hard work, plus a little luck, bring you what you’re working towards. (There was absolutely no way to rephrase that without the dangling preposition. I tried.)
BabyGirl, who has just figured out that some plurals end in the letter i and who just finished a poetry unit at kindergarten, asked me just last week if it was “haiki” after her teacher told them it’s not “haikus.” She cracks me up!
A different Ken Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 11:37 am
I understand the weird forced priorities in life sometimes. Your blog outlet is no longer that and that’s too bad. The existence of a blog doesn’t take away your integrity or your honesty or your forthrightness. I’ll miss your writing dearly, as I’ve certainly enjoyed it immensely. “Shoeing” and other Kelly-coined words are part of the lexicon. (I’m slow at learning practically anything can become a verb if you twist hard enough.
You’ve given voice to the thoughts of many, and that’s only a good thing.
With great respect, A different Ken.
PS - I hope you can keep your book ideas alive for the future. I’d buy a copy.
Stephen Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 11:44 am
Kelly,
Good luck in getting the new postion!
I’m sure I speak for many who read your blog: I completely understand your situation.
Having said that, it is sad that such a wonderful oasis of literacy and laughter will be disappearing.
Here’s wishing you all the best in your future endeavors.
stephen
Dana Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 11:50 am
I’m in tears and I feel very selfish about admitting that.
You are my inspiration. I fell in love with Kelly. Not “internet Kelly”, not “blogger Kelly”. Kelly who is a human being. A real person. A woman of strength. A woman who isn’t afraid to show her weaknesses, if it allows others to learn from it.
I’m going to miss you terribly. I never got to meet “real life” Kelly as that commentor put it, but I pray someday I will.
I love you like a sister. Please keep in touch by e-mail if you are able to.
Love,
Dana
Catherine S Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 11:54 am
Weird, that i would log on today. I don’t follow blogs - any of them. This one is saved on “favorites,” and i think of it once a month or so - and lose myself catching up. I thought of it today. I have three kids and i work full time. My husband is an educator. I have long appreciated your candor and your insight - about raising kids, having a job, working in schools, being a woman. A strange new world in which we all have to learn the rules, or make them up. Thanks for your inspired and inspirational role in it… and all the best.
Big Dog Mom Pam Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 12:03 pm
**Stomps foot** This is so totally not fair! I love your blog and I’m going to miss you horribly. Okay, I’ve been a lurker for a while, but I check it every day . . .
I’m so sad that all the good blogs keep ending. If you do come back, please send me an email or stop by my msn space and let me know. I’ll be sure to rush right back over to read all your wonderful entries.
Excuse me, I will be shoving thin mint cookies into my face and sobbing hysterically at the loss of such a wonderful blog. =(
Missy Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 12:15 pm
Hi Kelly,
I will miss you greatly. I have a habit of checking in with your blog daily. I hope that things go well for you.
Please feel free to email me anytime! Goodness…I could just cry.
ALOHA!
Missy
BotchedExperiment Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 12:34 pm
Here’s some platitudes for you:
It will all pass.
As you are (re?)discovering, strong smart people are ALWAYS resented. It is inevitable, like the changing of the seasons. You can be yourself and ultimately be resented by some, or you can try to not be yourself and try to please everyone all the time, but you know what they say about that.
Transition is stressfull, but usually good.
Anway, you’re such a great writer, I always suspected this blog was a fake, made up by a group of writers at a PR firm or a class of graduate students. . .
Best of luck; I’ve enjoyed reading you.
BotchedExperiment
dani Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 12:43 pm
Best of luck to you Kelly - I’m definitely going to miss you
But, shoes transcend all things and I hope you will continue to update with any new purchases you make?? Just a little glimpse into what you’re still up to on the foot-style front. xo to you.
Beckie Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 1:14 pm
OK, out of lurkdome to say I am SO sad! I love your blog!
jess Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 1:25 pm
We’ll always have the face lick and the ass blanket.
I will miss you. Seriously.
You are beautiful and amazing.
xxoo
Karyn Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 1:26 pm
Oh no!!! I’m going to miss reading your blog.
All the best to you and your family.
Karyn
Jennifer Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 1:31 pm
Sad to see you go. I wish you all the LOVE & Luck in the world. Keep your head up.
Jennifer
Betsy Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 1:36 pm
Well, this sucks. Consider a password blog. Please! From reading your entries, I think that writing is sometimes thereputic for you- I would hate for you to lose this. And I hate to lose my Mocha! You bring a voice of reason to the education world sometimes. And othertimes you very accurately describe the frustrations of the education world.
Also, secret identities are a good thing. A low profile is sometimes a good thing. Do you really think my real name is Betsy? No. effing. way. Besides, don’t many great authors have pen names? Consider it. Email me if you decide to change.
I’ll miss reading you.
Belinda Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 1:46 pm
Totally get it. I get all orangey (with a lot of sunny yellow) when your name shows up on my caller ID. I love you. I’ll miss this near-daily update format, but I’m hoping that you won’t disappear completely. I support you.
Now indulge my single whine: FLICKR TOO? WHY must the Flickr die? Any hope for a reprieve?
Beth Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 1:50 pm
Hi Kelly,
Not that it will help in any way, but you are the only blog that I have left a comment for. I read everyday, and I will miss you terribly. Everyone is right…you are funny and smart. Your love for your family translated perfectly, and I wish that there was something that we could say to have you change your mind. That said…the jealous haters of the world will not let go of their need for more, and that means you have to give this up so that you (the deserving) can have the job you want. Best of luck…I want in on the passowrd blog if you decide to have one.
Beth
Joe Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 2:00 pm
mocha mommaed sounds like being smothered in brown breasts. not a bad way to end a blog.
and you’ll always be adorable to me!
Steve Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 2:21 pm
OK, so now I’ve figured out why you left the shoe pictures. You’ve decided to give us all the boot! It’s a clever metaphor, Kelly, but I can’t help feeling it’s a little unceremonious. After all, we’ve been avid fans of your humor, your insights, and your damn fine writing for a long while. I guess in the end the swift kick is how you ambitious climbers get impediments like us out of the way.
Sorry, I couldn’t resist. It was the thought of Jimmy Choos that got me going.
Anyway, thanks for all the great posts. I’m sad to say that I understand your reasons for retiring. Rather than getting all morbid, though, I’ll hope for future connections with you — the “real” person we’ve happily come to know and appreciate.
Mocha Momma Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 2:24 pm
I shall consider the password blog.
I shall be forever floored that Botched is still reading me and offering excellent advice. Well, Botched always had good advice, that’s nothing new.
I shall ponder why more men couldn’t be like Steve and understand the shoe thing and MENTION JIMMY CHOOS like it’s in his everyday speech. Oh, Susan? You’re a lucky woman.
J to the Wall Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 2:27 pm
What the heck is going on??
DDM Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 2:33 pm
But….but? I only just found you! Best wishes Mocha Momma, I will really miss you. *Psssst!* If you go password, may I beg for priveleges?
Dana Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 2:35 pm
I’ve just realized — you’ll be a legend in your time.
I had to come back and make sure this was all real.
I’m gonna cry again.
Susan Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 2:52 pm
For some time, I have read your blog daily. It was a place to find relaxation and a funny, witty, literate story in the afternoons for me. I was touched by your writings about your son, and your love for your family in general. Also, I wish all teachers had your passion. You are a very BLESSED lady. Thank you so much for the time you spent entertaining and/or enlightening us. Sad to see it go, but I understand your decision. Sometimes change is a catalyst…a good thing. Best of luck to you!
p.s…I would very much like to be included in any secure blog, should one be created in the future!!!
Steve Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 3:08 pm
Lest you think Susan is too lucky, it was a joke among us many months ago that I was completely clueless when it came to Jimmy Choos. She later had to explain to me that it was a “Sex in the City” thing and that I didn’t need to know.
RWA Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 3:25 pm
Wow. This is not good news.
Well, it’s good for you that you’re getting a nice, new job that you really deserve - but not for your readers. I guess we shouldn’t be so selfish.
Good luck!!! We’ll miss you!!!
Miranda Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 4:00 pm
Kelly,
We’ve all seen firsthand how amazing you are and how you care about your family, career and students. The (very) selfish part of me is devastated, but the hopeful side of me says, “ROCK ON!”. You have so much to offer and I by no means want to be part of anything that could potentially hinder you in any way. You have been, and will continue to be, an inspiration.
Thank you.
-Miranda
Jeankfl Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 4:46 pm
Oh, My! Well, like the others, I hate this..a password protected one would be great, but if not, we’ll survive..you can always travel around blogland doing posts in our comments!!! That way you’ll stay safe!
hugs,
Jean
Caffeinated Librarian Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 4:53 pm
You already know what I think about this, honey - you gotta do what you gotta do.
I’m not going anywhere. I’ll be an email or a phone call away should you ever need me. And, as always, you are welcomed in my comments any time. We may have to work a little harder to keep in touch, but that’s life sometimes.
And I have to take issue with your “Real Life” commenter. I agree with his/her main point - your family and career has to come first, particularly when compared with something that is basically a hobby. That is a no-brainer.
But friendships, whether online or real life, are all unique. You expect certain things from some that you wouldn’t from others and you give certain things to certain friendships that you might not to others. But all friendships have one thing in common - they are not defined by distance or by blood, but by time, loyalty and honesty.
Let me be blunt. What right, Real Life, do you have to tell me that I’m bs-ing Kelly or giving her excuses? What right do you have to tell me I’m not a real friend because I don’t live in the same state she does? Do you know me? Do you know our friendship? Allow me help you out on that one, Real Life, because the answer is “no.” You do not. And if you do not, you should not presume to pontificate on our friendship in this blog or in any other space. Or if you care to try, you should at least have the guts to do so with your name attached so that I could address you in person…’cause I have a few choice words to share with you.
scout Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 5:00 pm
Well that just sucks! I just started reading you. I totally understand though. When I was teaching I only had a private livejournal that was friends only. Not the same at all, but I still was able to blog. I wish you lots and of luck and infinite cups of good coffee.
MrsRw Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 5:18 pm
I will be praying that you get this job and that it’s something that will take you further in your career and in your life. Writing is hard, not everyone is a good writer; that’s why we’re all so sad. You take letters and punctuation and blend them into expressions of our hopes, our dreams, our failures and manage to do it with wit, humor and touchingly real emotion.
Your paid job may be to help children but I would bet you’ve helped a lot of adults on this little blog. Thanks so much for all the things that your written words have accomplished.
Trisha Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 5:49 pm
I admit, I fail to see how this blog could prevent you from getting a job, any job. I have never read anything offensive or shameful. Blogging is such a common occurence now, I would bet at least half of all people who may interview you have their own blog. If it’s in the way of your real life and relationships, that’s one thing. Honestly, though, I’ve long considered blogs more of an interactive journal than a substitute relationship. I know I’ve only recently begun commenting, but I’ve been reading for a long time. I just don’t understand. I admire the commenters who say they do, they must know something I don’t.
Janice Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 5:58 pm
Kelly - for the past year or so you’ve provided me with thought provoking, entertaining, often tearful reading.
I have learned a great deal from you.
You are a beautiful, intelligent professional woman and mom/wife/daughter/sister. You set quite a standard you know!
My days will not be the same without being able to stop by here to get my “daily dose” of Mocha, and I don’t even drink coffee! Sacrilege I know!
I do understand how hard it is to work, parent and blog every day. Frankly I never understood how you managed…I can’t and I live alone now!
I wish you only good things. Only good. You will touch so many more people if you get this job. Best of luck!
Damn now I gotta go and blow my nose.
Sascha Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 6:00 pm
*sniffle*
Long-time reader/lurker here who will miss your wit and wisdom dreadfully.
While I understand the reasoning, I am truely/truly/trueley?, aw hell…very sad that you’re closing up shop. It seems all the good ones are disappearing in the blink of an eye.
To the bad influences hanging out in internetland I say this: Karma is a bitch, and perhaps you will remember this when it’s your turn.
Now, off to pout.
Oh, and I know you don’t know me from a bar of soap, but I would be extremely grateful to be included w/ the “cool kids” and the password protected blog. (I may be a lurker, but I’m not THAT weird! Trust me!)
You will be missed. Take care.
Lindsey Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 6:13 pm
I’m so sad…. this was a great inspiration to me as mom who had a kid in her teens.. you showed me how great it can turn out. I’ll miss you!
Linda Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 8:18 pm
I join all the rest in missing you. But instead of praying for the job you want I’ll pray for the job you need to continuing growing into yourself.
All the best wishes for your future.
Debbie H Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 8:18 pm
Sorry to hear this news. Your site always makes me smile.
Busy Mom Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 10:15 pm
Just had to come back and see if I was imagining things.
Lady M Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 10:30 pm
I’m going to miss reading you, Mocha! Wishing you all the best in your potential new job and other prospects. I now remember the 8th part of speech, and for that I thank you.
Brenda Said,
March 5, 2007 @ 11:15 pm
Kelly,
I’m already aching for your blog the way I ache for my favorite TV show over the long summer months. Talented writers leave their readers wanting more. I’m definitely left wanting. Thanks for all that you were able to give. You’ll be missed.
Susan Said,
March 6, 2007 @ 1:52 am
It’s me again, with insomnia. So what I will write may not be very coherent…
I wanted to agree with Caf. Librarian’s reaction to Real Life. Your cyber-friends are real people who do have an interest in your well-being. Just because we can only express it via the blogosphere doesn’t mean that our concern and affection for you aren’t genuine. It’s impossible not to be hugely attracted to such a delightful, sincere, and intelligent human being. Those qualities just jump off this page every day and that’s why you have such a loyal following. These relationships are perfectly “legitimate.”
But I did think that RL made a good point about taking care of the people who are physically in our lives–that’s what I thought was “wise” in her comment. I’ve said to Steve so many times–How does Kelly do it?? There are only 24 hours in a day! Yes, I know your coffee capacity is far greater than mine, and I’m green with envy over your energy level. But if something’s gotta give, then I can see why it should be this blog. Especially if it could hurt your career in any way. Too bad for us!
Yes, I know that I am so lucky to have a gem like Steve! Speaking of shoes, he got dragged into a shoe-shopping expedition for The Girl (Julia) a couple of weeks ago. She picked a brown dress for a fraternity formal and that meant trying on every pair of brown shoes at Nordstrom’s–I swear we were there for an hour and half. They have a lot more brown shoes than I would ever have thought, btw. Steve was even helping to hunt down just the right pair. No Jimmy Choo’s though–he would have fainted dead away had he seen the price tag on those babies.
Mocha Momma Said,
March 6, 2007 @ 5:46 am
It’s pretty easy to write a comment so I won’t fret about signing in for a post. Just yet.
I’ve left in sort of a hurry and I wish I hadn’t, but there are a few little ends to tie up and, God love my Mom and Dad, they just taught me better manners than that. One, I have a commitment to write about some coffee I’ve gotten and it wouldn’t be fair just to keep the coffee without a review. Two, I promised to do something else.
You’ll just have to check your Bloglines or Feedblitz or whatever it is you do to keep updated to find out.
With all this love and loyalty, I know you will. You’re pretty damn fabulous like that.
Yeah. I said damn.
deannie Said,
March 6, 2007 @ 6:08 am
I just come here to smell the coffee anyhow. Everything else was the creamer in my coffee (how I loved the variety, espcially the spicy kind). You know you will always be Mocha Momma to me! Many hugs,
kay Said,
March 6, 2007 @ 8:05 am
I guess I have been taking you for granted. I was looking forward to watching your kids grow up and you becoming a principal. Let’s just say that this morning I would rather read comments about your blog than read anyone else’s actual blog. Some school or company is going to be lucky to receive the full blast of your Kelliness! I will be lifting a latte in your name later today.
tanilan Said,
March 6, 2007 @ 9:45 am
Okay I’m crying. You are like the most awesome person in the world! But if you must go, I must support you. I will miss your stories and most of all your wit. Never in a million years did I think this day would come. I’ll miss you, just don’t stop being you! It hurts but I stand by you 100%! You will be deeply missed.
Much Love
Gwen Said,
March 6, 2007 @ 9:56 am
Hi Kelly,
I haven’t commented much (mostly because by the time I have time for eloquence I am too tired to be at all articulate) but I wanted you to know how much your posts have made me think. I am an educator, a mom and I have a huge interest in literacy, all of which seem to fit so well with your blog. I hope all goes well on the principal front, and just to let you know I would love to have a principal who could communicate as well as you do on your blog. I would also love a password, and I promise that my weird Canadian ways wouldn’t rub off. I hope you find a safe outlet to keep writing. Maybe a book or two like Vivian Gussin Paley (”Kwanza and Me”, “You Can’t Say You Can’t Play”). I think your P.O.V. would be really helpful to new and experienced teachers alike.
You will be missed.
Gwen
KC Said,
March 6, 2007 @ 10:16 am
WTF???? Wow… insane I say… but hon - I guess you do what you have too, and we respect you for that. I am in complete disbelief though…
Insane.
Chris Said,
March 6, 2007 @ 11:31 am
Kelly,
I am sorry to see you go, but this does take huge time and commitment when you want it to be perfect. Right now you have bigger fish to fry, although I will miss you horridly. As for the *comment* you mentioned….I just want to go on record…that I would have said the exact same thing to my best friend of 15 years if she had asked me. And I am (and have been) brutally honest with my comments before (in real life as well as virtual ) So please don’t ever feel that we are all here just fluffing your pride. Miss ya.
Chris Said,
March 6, 2007 @ 11:46 am
Seriously…this blog needed a warning label..don’t read unless caffeinated. I RAN OUT OF FILTERS last night. No coffee.all.day. Okay…now I finally get what’s going on a little better after reading comments! LOL. Yeah, slow without the cuppa.
I don’t understand why people have to be such..meanie butts. I’ve only been reading since December, and I LOVE you blog no matter what the topic. And golly gee I am just really really upset right now. I don’t understand exactly about the swearing thing mentioned before…but I’m being really good to not.
Just remember the people who throw the most stones, always have the most ghosts in their own closets. Okay. I have to go now because I am really mad at people right now.
I was very happy to know you and I wish you the very bestest that anyone can have and if you ever think you might be my way..please email me ’cause I’d LOVE to meet you for a real cuppa.
Mocha Momma Said,
March 6, 2007 @ 2:56 pm
To all the lurkers, thank you. I had no idea who was reading… hence, a part of the problem on my end.
I would love to write a book. Seriously. Seriously. When I can catch a break here soon I will put some thought into it.
Your kindness overwhelms me and humbles me.
Mocha Momma Said,
March 6, 2007 @ 2:58 pm
Oh, Chris? Paper towels work in a pinch for filters. I’ve even used toilet paper before.
That’s how you know a true coffeephile when you see one.
Nacole Said,
March 6, 2007 @ 3:47 pm
Mocha,
I think that Goodbye and Goodluck and God Bless sums it up.
I’m not a true lurker … I’ve commented several times . . . but I do not have my own blog or a way to find you if you reappear somewhere else so, I’m asking for a password. I’ll send you my resume to prove I’m legit
What we become depends on what we read after all of the professors have finished with us. The greatest university of all is a collection of books.”
- Thomas Carlyle
Nacole Said,
March 6, 2007 @ 5:12 pm
Mocha,
I’m not a true lurker … I’ve posted several times. However, b/c I don’t have my own blog, if you go into hiding and come out new I won’t have a way to find you … may I have a password please. I’ll even send you writing samples/resumes/dna/your request to prove I’m legit. Thank you in advance.
In parting, you’ll apreciate …
“What we become depends on what we read after all of the professors have finished with us. The greatest university of all is a collection of books.”
- Thomas Carlyle
Good luck and God Bless.
-Nacole
lou gillihan Said,
March 6, 2007 @ 6:06 pm
Creep, it the old white woman from
Arkansas. You are wonderful and I will miss you. good luck to you and never let your spirit be diminished. Always, Lou
Caffeinated Librarian Said,
March 6, 2007 @ 6:18 pm
Ooooooooookay. *ahem* Even I’ve never done the toilet paper for filters thing.
You do realize what we’re doing, right? You can’t leave if we keep commenting. *insert evil grin here*
The Great Pretender Said,
March 6, 2007 @ 7:10 pm
Mocha,
I’m another lurker that just had to write to tell you how sad I am to hear that you are ending this blog. As a fellow educator and mom- I truly love reading you blog every day. You’ve made me laugh, cry, and think and for that I thank you.
Blessings to you,
S
Jenn Said,
March 6, 2007 @ 7:50 pm
but…I mean….it’s just that…well…
But you still better find a way to BlogHer. I must have my Mocha Mama time.
Does this mean I win the “I can out coffee drink you” title? I SO don’t want to win this way.
I mean…well…phoooey fiddle sticks this is the pits. Keep in touch with me, sweetie. Please.
Because you know I can take you. I can. Yes, I can. Yes, I can. Uh-huh I can.
milkwhitemomma Said,
March 6, 2007 @ 8:39 pm
we really need to have a drink — not a latte either, o.k. maybe if it’s a big one……you suck….
Moley123 Said,
March 7, 2007 @ 5:29 am
{{{{Kelly}}}} OMG! My indulgent blog reading is coming to an end??? Surely not! I suppose the quote “just because you are paronoid does’nt mean they aren’t watching you” kind of came true eh? Typical!
I sure hope you create a password protected blog, I’d be v happy to peruse under this method. And if not me thinks you will have one heck of a list to send updating emails to! lol.
Plus even though we’ve never met in person, I consider you my friend, I mean I wouldn’t email someone I didn’t consider my friend for advice on using the EOS and job applications?
Whatever you decide, good luck, enjoy life and know I’ll try and haunt you often via email! Take care hun xxx
aimee Said,
March 7, 2007 @ 10:38 am
Weren’t you the one who said you couldn’t resist a dare? (Hence Nablogpo…whatever) I DARE YOU TO KEEP WRITING ON YOUR BLOG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! COME BACK KELLIIEEEE!
Carole Said,
March 7, 2007 @ 2:03 pm
I love your writing, so my afternoon is now ruined…:(
Best of luck to you.
Tom Said,
March 7, 2007 @ 3:46 pm
Kelly,
I’m over 18 I promise!!!
Don’t you already have one of those “password protected” sites?
-S. Said,
March 7, 2007 @ 4:06 pm
No more words to look up? Where will I learn my new words at each week? Who will inspire me to actually use the dictionary?
I am so sad to see you go. I have been reading you forever. Back when you were still on spaces.
Perhaps another blog another time.
Move forward my friend with confidence. We will be sad, but you have inspired many.
Write once in a while or comment so I know you are okay.
Also, keep up the good writing somehow so you can complete your book. The Alan Series is still my favorite series I have read in any blogs ever!
-S.
Keis Said,
March 7, 2007 @ 5:16 pm
Sorry to see you go. I’ve learned much from you. Good luck in the future.
Bipolar Housewife Said,
March 7, 2007 @ 5:31 pm
NOOOOOOO!!!!! Don’t leave! Don’t!!!!!
Just don’t. I can’t think of anything else to write just now, so that’s it. Don’t leave.
I don’t always have time to comment sometimes, with my toddler pulling my hands away from the keyboard, but I read here all the time. You are funny, sweet, honest, smart, and a million other things. I wish I could be more like you. Trust me, as role models go, you’re one of the greatest!
I would miss you terribly, so reconsider if you get a chance. I’m not supportive that way, just selfish. Hope you understand!
R
Janice Said,
March 7, 2007 @ 6:02 pm
What if I promised to start drinking coffee? Would that work? I had tea today, does that count? Huh? Huh?
What about all the money you raised for your three students at Christmas? You couldn’t have done it without us! Well…you could have but WE inspired you!!
And the mugs!! You haven’t done the mugs yet! I would buy a mug and you could donate the money to your school or to the Real Life person who kinda put a damper on things.
Please?
Janice
Sassy Belle Said,
March 7, 2007 @ 11:46 pm
NOOOOOOOOO! MOCHA! COME BAAACK!
*stomps foot*!
(being mature and wishing you well is no fun!)
I mean, I do wish you well, but… NOOOOO!
Alyndabear Said,
March 8, 2007 @ 1:07 am
But.. But.. Come back!
G Said,
March 8, 2007 @ 8:05 am
Here’s a wicked thought -
This is a beautiful domain your lovely Kenny bought you. It’s a shame to totally abandon it. Why not go through, delete all the posts that could cause you job trouble, and then lower your posting standards? You don’t have to post every day. Each post doesn’t have to be brilliant. Yes you’d be censored, but still have a creative outlet. What do you think? Wink wink nudge nudge. Ignore the devil horns that sprouted from my head.
mike Said,
March 8, 2007 @ 10:15 am
I’m dumbfounded. And to think how happy you were when you got the domain name. Surely that can’t go to waste. I’m voting for password protection, but that’s really a thin layer of reassurance. Whatever you choose, I hope you find a creative outlet.
-Mike
inthefastlane Said,
March 8, 2007 @ 10:58 am
You do what you need to do. But, before you go, know that you were the reason I first started blogging and the very first blog that I ever started checking every day. Good luck in whatever awaits you and come back soon if things work out that way.
Bipolar Housewife Said,
March 8, 2007 @ 12:46 pm
Ditto, especially the last three comments!
Oh, and by the way, I do wish you well, but I also don’t want you to go. And, I want you to know, it is ACTUALLY all about ME!
R
chris Said,
March 8, 2007 @ 1:45 pm
WAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!
I will miss you terribly and be forced to stalk you via email. You can go private on your flickr account also, if you still wanted tyo be able to us your fabulous shoes.
I love you!!!
Dana Said,
March 8, 2007 @ 2:56 pm
I keep checking the comments — just to see if I missed any news.
Yvonne Said,
March 8, 2007 @ 7:41 pm
Out of all the BAGS, it was you, Cher, Jess and Penny who kept in touch. Then Cher went into hibernation. Jess cant stay in one place. Penny pops in to say hello occasionally. But I always had you to talk to.
I understand that the family and job has to be more important than blogging or you’re readers, No matter how much we love you or you love us. I promised not to throw tantrums over you going (at least not where you can see me). But can you please at least email me one line so I know you are okay?
You owe me nothing, I will not make you sad, I do miss you and think of you everyday.
Java Junkie Said,
March 8, 2007 @ 8:30 pm
I hope some day you scroll to the bottom of these 88 posts and see me, your kindred spirit, wishing you and that beautiful gorgeous smile that I look at every time you upload a new photo that just MAKES MY DAY the best and happiest and richest life you could possibly have. You will be so so missed. I don’t think I’ve ever left a comment, but I have *always* felt a connection. You are the person I would like to be.
Your shoes are great but not even Imelda Marco’s closet could take your place.
Peace and love and joy be with you always.
JJ
Mocha Momma Said,
March 8, 2007 @ 8:36 pm
I see the comments. They keep coming. You all didn’t team up and really decide to keep doing it so I’d come back, did you?
Still not yet ready for a post, but I will be soon and when I do I will try and fail (this I know to be true) to convey how much the comments and emails mean to me. Dear Sweet Baby Jesus wrapped in a blanket, y’all are sentimental and kind.
Everything you’re saying, everything you’re doing I appreciate and am thinking deeply about. No one hates to waste money more than I and a domain that’s paid for over the next 4 years? Yeah, that’s a lotta shoes, folks.
I miss you.
Josh Said,
March 8, 2007 @ 9:04 pm
Mocha….NOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!! This can’t be!!!!! This SO SUCKS!!! Well, if you do decide to do a password blog, I hope I am priviledged to be able to read. I love to read your blog. You write so wonderful…it’s always great to read when I am able to catch a glimpse. Best wishes!!
Josh
(PS: I am done with teaching for now…just resigned at the end of my contract…long story…)
Jenny J. Said,
March 8, 2007 @ 9:07 pm
Kelly!
Oh I will miss you so! But I get it. I totally do.
Will you still go to BlogHer? PLEEEAAAAAASE! You HAVE to! It’s so conveniently located for you. please?
Linda Said,
March 8, 2007 @ 9:11 pm
I miss you lovely lady. Like Dana, I keep checking. If you go private would you consider me for a password, please? (I promise not to take but a smidge of your time.) Either way I wish you and Ken and the kids the best with all of your dreams.
Lia Said,
March 8, 2007 @ 9:26 pm
Say it isn’t so! I will miss reading you. I will also miss your beautiful eyes and skin.
Chris Said,
March 8, 2007 @ 10:18 pm
NOW I read the responding comments about paper towels! I would have tried it too! I went all day without coffee. sigh. still missing you.
Jeankfl Said,
March 9, 2007 @ 1:41 pm
Well, your “real” life is more important than any blog, no matter how good or how fun. If you have fences to mend, or things you have to do, go do them…then come back and let us know..we’ll check in occasionally just to see if you had a little time to share something with us. Real life friends are hard to find, and precious to keep…so do your best there instead of here..we can email, too!
hugs,
Jean
rachel Said,
March 9, 2007 @ 1:47 pm
totally respect
the choice you made, but I
will miss you and shoe
gah - I get sick and look at all I miss!
hope to see you around.
J. fergie Said,
March 9, 2007 @ 3:12 pm
And I was just getting to know you! Wishing you all the best
ali Said,
March 9, 2007 @ 4:04 pm
hey kelly, just wanted you to know that i read here everyday, i read your stuff to my husband-the only blog i have ever done that with. i’ve been feeling a little pregnant lately so i haven’t been doing much writing or commenting, but i will greatly miss checking into my favorite blog and reading with amazement, how does she do that? write a funny, thought provoking, endearing post that flows so well? i have hoped that i will be lucky enough for my son to have a teacher in his school system like you, who truly wants the best for the students, and will go out of their way to accomplish it.
you are an intelligent, well educated woman who has made life work for you, i can respect that, so as much as i hate this decision, i respect whatever it is you decide you need to do. love you, even if i have never met you!
Mike Said,
March 9, 2007 @ 5:01 pm
Wow, all the pics are gone? That is depressing. You are an attractive women. I will miss the blog, but you know what you are doing.
All the best.
Mike
The Lilac Penguin Said,
March 9, 2007 @ 5:45 pm
This problem you have is the main reason that I have never in the last 18 months of my blog (when I do post) list any info that can lead a person to guess who I am. It allows a degree of freedom for me to write what I wish with out upsetting my very public clients. Very few peopl know who I am by name and they are many states away…
So when you restart your new ‘masked’ blog, I know a few people you can send posts to, and we will help keep you alive in the underworld with us… since i REFUSE to believe you will just stop entirely… (i refuse to give up you and mumo in the same season… and yes i am pitching a fit)
Peng….
Trisha Said,
March 9, 2007 @ 7:25 pm
Still checking the comments, and oh! How happy I am when there’s a new Mocha brown box in the list! I’ll drink even your sludgy leftovers at the bottom of the pot, if that’s all there is left.
BIg Mike Said,
March 10, 2007 @ 6:35 pm
I’m the 110th person to say you’ll be missed. You’ll be missed. But I totally understand. My blog has decayed to a whimpering shadow of it’s former glory with barely 1 entry a week and often it’s just a joke cut and pasted from a junk email from my little sister. Time is precious and we all respect that.
Brenda Said,
March 10, 2007 @ 7:09 pm
Whoa. I’m shocked and saddened all wrapped up in one. As you can tell, I’ve mostly been reading by way of RSS feed and missed way too much here. Whatever happens, I’m just glad we crossed paths. Do write that book, k? I want one. Signed, of course.
aunttea Said,
March 11, 2007 @ 1:46 am
holy moly. say it isn’t so.
awwwwwww. mocha, yours was the first blog i looked at at msn and i was instantly intrigued by the whole blogging idea.
best best BEST of wishes to you.
dawn finley Said,
March 11, 2007 @ 4:25 am
Kelly,
Who will I share my cuppa with? There is much saddness in the world. As a fellow educator, I will miss your insights in the ways of the world. Your writing is heartfelt, thought-provoking and awesome. It is hard in a world when people can be so spiteful to not admit that we are all just real people, with real lives and that each person’s reality is their own and it is what makes us who we are. As a teacher I am inspired by you, as a woman I am honored to “know” you. You rock and I say fuck you to those who aren’t adult enough to understand and are petty enough to hold yourself against you.
WHW Said,
March 11, 2007 @ 7:55 am
Big bummer. I haven’t commentedmuch, but have always enjoyed your style.
I wish you the very best.
Siobhan Said,
March 11, 2007 @ 10:49 am
Kelly,
I like to think of myself as your longest running fan. I remember just as you were starting out on the other site, asking my assistance on changing your colours up. Seems so long ago now. It wasn’t, but it was.
I understand. But I don’t have to like it.
Izzy Said,
March 11, 2007 @ 1:08 pm
I’m always late to the party but this is no party. This is sad. You’ve built something wonderful here and I’m bummed to think that it won’t be around anymore. I haven’t been reading blogs as much as I used to because life keeps getting in the way but I always popped by here to see what you were up to, even if I didn’t comment. This just sucks. I don’t know what else to say.
Jamie Said,
March 11, 2007 @ 1:08 pm
So sad! I have lurked for a while, and I just love reading everything you have to say. I will MISS you!!!
Katy Said,
March 11, 2007 @ 2:19 pm
Someone once told me that there is no gold standard for teacher blogs, and I thought to myself “they’re wrong–clearly, it’s Mocha.” I’ve enjoyed your honesty, your excellent writing, and most of all, your strength of character. That strenghth is what makes people want to take you down a notch. If you go password please please please send me an e-mail. I know I comment rarely these days, but I keep up–I do.
KM
Bipolar Housewife Said,
March 11, 2007 @ 5:10 pm
How cool is this? You have FANS, Mocha! FANS! I don’t have “fans” of anything I do. This is a rare thing for most people, and it seems you have made quite an impression. And I reiterate the “role model” bit. You never made excuses in your life for why you “couldn’t” do something, just found a way to do it. You’re an inspiration, Mocha. I hope you can find a way for us to still enjoy your writing.
Another fan,
R
Mocha Momma Said,
March 11, 2007 @ 6:46 pm
It would be a shame to throw this readership away. For now, you have to know I need this time for a little break. As a testament, I’m not going to comment at all this week. Because it’s a big week and that’s all you’re getting out of me!
“gold standard”. That one made me smile.
dawn finley Said,
March 12, 2007 @ 6:14 am
gold luck if this “big week” is an interview somewhere for principal. you would be reat at it. any school would be lucky to have you.
Mannyed Said,
March 12, 2007 @ 6:37 am
Mocha Momma: You (and your blog) are truly one of the best! I wish you luck in your new adventures!
Jennifer Said,
March 12, 2007 @ 11:11 am
**HUGS** to you Kelly! Have a great week.
coolbeans Said,
March 12, 2007 @ 11:17 am
The strange and delicate balance between Online and Offline is difficult to define and maintain. I wish you the best whatever you decide.
Gillian Said,
March 12, 2007 @ 7:00 pm
Please let us know if you decide to start blogging again. You’re such a wonderful, inspiring person
Thank you and best of luck!
Fabiola Said,
March 13, 2007 @ 12:52 pm
Dear Kelly!!
Please come back!!
Fabiola
Karianna Said,
March 13, 2007 @ 6:03 pm
Oh no…
Sad to see you go.
What will I do without you?
Enjoy the coffee.
Seriously: best of luck with your future endevors.
kate5kiwis Said,
March 13, 2007 @ 9:45 pm
i remember reading your “richard cranium” post last august, and crying and leaving you a comment.
i still have the email you wrote me.
and the feeling of solidarity.
i popped in here last week and blondely skipped past the “end of blog” reality cos i started thinking up haikus, er, haiku.
and when i popped in here this afternoon, i wondered if you’d broken your arm or something, until i re-read the post and…
now i am crying again.
huge love to you girl, all the way from New Zealand.
and please add me to your password-protected brave new blog, when you find your muse again.
Elle Said,
March 14, 2007 @ 4:58 am
Delurking to say what I should have when I started reading when you were on the other site. Thank you. I have always admired your energy, attitude, and overall Mochaness. The bonus? Finding out what great coffees/teas are out there with a certified taste tester.
Seriously, best of luck in whatever path you choose to follow. We can only hope to be able to follow.
Elle
Tracey Said,
March 14, 2007 @ 7:33 pm
I was in tears wih Allen, and there are tears in my eyes now. I will miss you and your blog terribly. If you do go password protected, count me in!! I love reading your thoughts and the stories about your family.
You will be missed!!
Karl Said,
March 15, 2007 @ 4:45 pm
WTF? I just heard the news.
Jill Said,
March 15, 2007 @ 7:00 pm
Kelly,
I don’t visit nearly enough. Here it is, two weeks later, and I just found out.
I understand and respect your decision. That comment you linked to hit me pretty hard, which makes me think that maybe virtual reality really can bite into reality. Strange.
I hope you do keep writing. I would love to be part of your password blog, but I also hope that you keep it for you.
- Jill
Nora Said,
March 16, 2007 @ 6:00 am
The comments are quite heartwarming, aren’t they? I’ll admit that I hope once you get settled maybe you can find a way to continue. Because if not, we will be forced to see malathionman’s shoe pics in your stead, and quite frankly it was freaky, but sweet kinda. : ) Good luck!
Jungle Mama Said,
March 16, 2007 @ 6:45 am
Okay, Mocha Mama, I’ll wait to hear your results at the end of the week. I expect nothing but greatness out of you. You’re an amazing woman and wonderful blog to visit. I know I haven’t always been the most faithful of readers, but I do happen by now and again to get my dose of caffeine from the Mama who brews it best. I look forward to whatever is in your future.
Bree Said,
March 16, 2007 @ 11:51 am
Kelly…I miss you but I understand and I wish you much success!
I have to share this story with you though…for I know you’ll understand.
Every morning 1st thing I do is make coffee, second turn on the news. Usually I get to see the intro of the Today show before I leave and then decide if I want to dvr it…yesterday morning I was running late. Wait let me back up a sentence…I have a direct shot of the TV in my bedroom once I step out of the shower…ok so I was running late the Today show already started when I got in the shower…well as I step out…let me tell ya who was on the tv greeting me…Barack Obama! So there I was dripping wet starting at Mr. Obama with the oh so sexy smile…I know its crazy but it was a special delightful moment. What’s even more crazy than me thinking that I actually shared a special moment is the fact that a few minutes after it happened I said to myself…I have to tell Mocha Momma…haha
Take care…and Cheers!
marisa Said,
March 18, 2007 @ 12:57 am
Ok… i went off and got really sick had major surgery was stuck in a wheel chair for a while and granted I was gone pretty long i was not expecting to come back to this.
Please don’t go.
mt
Psycho Cyclist Said,
March 18, 2007 @ 1:03 pm
Kelly,
Like a few other people here, I didn’t initially grasp the idea that you were calling it quits. Went right over my freakin’ head. But now I understand. I took a break to sort of some personal stuff of my own and missed a whole lot of stuff both here and on the other blogs I visited. I don’t pretend to understand what you are going through and its not my place to know. But you can visit my site or email me if you need a sounding board for anything. They say what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger. Over the past 5 months, I have really come to believe that. I’ll check back periodically and see how things are going. I wish nothing but the best for you. You’ve been a pleasure to read.
nelle Said,
March 18, 2007 @ 6:40 pm
Damn, damn, DAMN!
My best wishes go out to you and to your family. You have touched my life in some way, and you have warmed my heart with your words.
Sending good thoughts into the universe in hopes they come to rest with you.
nelle
kittylitter Said,
March 19, 2007 @ 5:36 am
yeah, what they said
Kel Said,
March 19, 2007 @ 12:23 pm
I, too, am a lurker. I am compelled to jump on the bandwagon simply to let you know that I have truly enjoyed reading your blog. I’ve laughed, I’ve cried…I’ve been completely entertained. Best of luck to you!
-S. Said,
March 19, 2007 @ 1:05 pm
Mocha - HELP!!
Did you see what malathionman has done? He is wearing dress shoes. He is really starting to scare me. PLEASE Come Back Soon!
-S.
Threeblognight Said,
March 23, 2007 @ 3:00 pm
Let’s be honest: there isn’t freedom of speech. There is always a cost. Well said.
However, the people who pay the cost are much more admirable then those who send the bill.
If anyone could afford the cost, I would have thought it would have been you. Your blog was THE best, it inspired me, it gave me hope, and it allowed me to know you.
Thank you.